"Sometimes I really do hate myself"
"I wish I had a thigh gap"
"One day, I will look like _______"
"Why can't I just be better?"
These are all things I have seen on my twitter feed in the past two hours.
It breaks my heart to see anyone, especially young women, be so insecure.
We live in a world constantly bombarding us with subtle {and not so subtle} messages on a daily basis.
Even if they are not verbally vocalized.
be skinnier.
be stronger.
speak up more.
be quieter.
be softer.
be more tough.
work harder.
be smarter.
buy this so you can be more ____.
be more like her.
be more like him.
you are not enough.
you are not enough.
you are not enough.
Little whispers that constantly surround, mock, and overwhelm.
You hear them while watching TV, driving down the road, getting on instagram.
They are everywhere.
And they are lies.
I will say that again:
They are nothing more than lies.
Stop buying into the lies that say you are not enough.
You were fearfully and wonderfully made.
You were created uniquely, and with a purpose.
You aren't meant to be more like ____, you are meant to be you.
There is no reason to chase anything else other than the best version of yourself.
Why?
Because you are enough.
And when you don't believe that, you do the one who created you a major disservice.
Love yourself.
Sometimes it's hard.
And that's sad, because it shouldn't be.
But you have to love yourself.
Because there is one who loves you far more than you could ever imagine, and I think that it must absolutely break His heart to see that you don't believe you are enough.
To see that your time is taken up wishing you were someone else, striving to be different than you are.
Embrace who you are, for you were made that way for a reason. For a purpose. For a destiny that only you can fulfill.
You are not merely okay.
You will not do.
You are not simply average.
You are enough.
You are more than enough.
Live your life believing that, because you are worth it.
Because you are enough.
